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#608 - Waiting on God for Deliverance

Pure Life Ministries Podcast

This episode: Deliverance from sexual sin often comes only after truly waiting on God. Learn some of these principles in today's episode!

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Ministry Update - December 2024

Pure Life Ministries Podcast

We're so excited about all the Lord is doing through our ministry! Check out our latest video to find out what we've been up to in 2024.

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Salvation

Timeless Truths: The Evidence of Saving Faith

Steve Gallagher

Timeless Truths: The evidence of saving faith is not that a person believes doctrines, but that they love and obey God from the heart.

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#607 - What's the First Step to Breaking Free from Sexual Sin? | Ask the Counselor

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This episode: We’ll provide a biblical response to the question, “What is the first step to breaking free from sexual sin?”

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Keep Your Eyes on God's Goal

Keep Your Eyes on God's Goal

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When we make freedom from sexual sin the highest goal in our lives, we are aiming at something far lower than what God wants to give us.

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Finding Freedom

Sometimes the goal we set for ourselves does not fully match God's goal for us. Here's a surprising example of this: when we make freedom from sexual sin our highest goal. In today’s interview, we’ll talk about why God's goal for our lives is much deeper and more wonderful than that, and why pursuing His goal for our lives is a key lesson on the road to freedom.

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The Power Behind Addiction

The Power Behind Addiction

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Sin repeatedly indulged will take hold of a man’s soul to the point of losing control of his life.

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Sexual Sin

What causes people to repeatedly engage in sinful vices, regardless of the consequences?

What makes pornography seemingly impossible to resist the more its indulged in?

How can we overcome habits which have plagued us for years, or even decades?

If you are trapped in the cycle of porn addiction, THERE IS HOPE! Join Steve Gallagher as he unveils the inner workings behind addiction and how to break its power over your life.

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Purity for Life Episode #565: Overcome Offenses With Forgiveness | Key Lessons on the Road to Freedom

#565 - Overcome Offenses With Forgiveness | Key Lessons on the Road to Freedom

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Cultivating a spirit of forgiveness is an essential part of maintaining freedom from habitual sin.

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Finding Freedom
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Have you ever had to navigate at high speeds around an object that is lying in the middle of a busy highway? Relationship issues are a bit like that. You've got to learn how to navigate safely around them, otherwise you're going to experience some real damage to your heart and life. In today's episode, we'll talk about why cultivating a spirit of forgiveness is an absolutely critical part of staying on the road to freedom.

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Why Those Who Weep Are Actually Blessed | Ashes to Beauty

Why Those Who Weep Are Actually Blessed | Ashes to Beauty

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When Jesus said, "Blessed are those who mourn," He meant that our pain is actually opening the door for tremendous spiritual blessing.

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Finding Freedom

In the newest episode of Ashes to Beauty: When our hearts are torn open, we frantically reach for anything that will take away the pain. But what if God showed up in our suffering and told us that our pain was actually opening the door to tremendous blessing? Even though that makes no sense to our natural minds, that's exactly what He means when He says, "Blessed are those who mourn."

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Man and wife showing mercy and love to eachother

Creating an Atmosphere of Mercy in the Home

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When mercy is in the atmosphere of a home, then an atmosphere of fighting and disagreement has no hope of surviving.

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How can a couple change the environment of their home from one of tension and strife into an atmosphere where mercy is flowing toward one another? Jeff and Rose Colón address that topic in this interview.

Host: Jeff and Rose Colón have joined me in the studio. Jeff and Rose, good to see you again.

Jeff: Good to be here.

Host: We want to talk today about the importance of creating an atmosphere of mercy in the home. Jeff, what do we have to say about that?

Jeff: The whole idea of creating an atmosphere of mercy in the home environment is a vital component for a godly marriage. If you think about it, any marriage that's going to glorify God and show forth His goodness is a picture of the Lord’s relationship with His church. Our marriages are supposed to exemplify that. The Lord had compassion on each one of us. Ephesians 2 says He died while we were yet sinners because of His mercy toward us. Is it too much for Him to ask us to show that same mercy in our marriages?

Host: As you were talking about that, I was thinking that if there's an atmosphere of mercy in the home, not only is there going to be peace in the home which every couple wants, but what a better testimony for others outside of the home that are watching that relationship.

Jeff: Exactly. And if we're in a Christian marriage, especially one that's having difficulties, we're really going to find out how Christian we really are and how much mercy we have in our hearts toward our spouse. I've told my wife many times that there is absolutely no reason why a truly Christian marriage should ever fail even after something as devastating as sexual sin has occurred.

Host: Amen. Now let's talk about how to go about creating an atmosphere of mercy in the home. Let's start with the husband. What are some of the things that the husband can do?

Jeff: I have dealt with this a lot with the men in the Residential program who have sinned against their wives. And one of the most important things I emphasize to them is to really be willing to bear the burdens of their wife. Not be defensive or react in an unbiblical way to her fears or things that she's still dealing with from their lifestyle of sin that they were living in for years in that home. He needs to give her the same mercy that God has showered upon him.
      I know in my own household, when mercy is in the atmosphere, then an atmosphere of fighting and disagreement has no hope of surviving. The Bible tells us to not be overcome by evil but to overcome evil with good. And I'm not saying your spouse is evil, but that's how we feel sometimes when we're wronged. And I know men can be a little touchy sometimes and we really need to learn to put our wives’ interest before our own and consider their needs more important than ours.

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Host: Of course, the husband is half of the equation, but how can a wife help to create an atmosphere of mercy in the home?

Rose: She can create an atmosphere of mercy in the home by being patient and being willing to suffer long with others in the home. Not only with her husband, but with her children. Because a lot of times wives will reach a limit with their husband around the children, and they start yelling or they may even belittle their husband in front of the children. And when she's in that spirit, she's not creating an atmosphere of mercy in the home toward her husband or even toward her children. If she is acting that way, then she needs to learn how to be willing to admit that she’s wrong and not feel like she needs to prove that she’s right or win the argument. If she is willing to walk in humility toward her husband and to be willing to pray for him instead of voicing her complaints or grievances, she will create an atmosphere of mercy in her home.

Host: Jeff, I know that developing an atmosphere of mercy in the home is a challenge for any couple. We all have to bear one another. Is there an encouraging word you can give to a couple that may be struggling with this?

Jeff: Sure. As I said earlier, difficulties usually do come in a marriage and it's going to test us, but God has called us to go the Narrow Way. He's called us to be a disciple. In other words, to live and to walk as He walked. To love as He loved. And when we face those tough choices that go against everything that we feel and perceive to be right, we'll really find out how much we love God. And one of the greatest needs in any marriage is for mercy to be flowing freely from both parties. So, my encouragement would be, don't be stingy with the mercy God has given you. Let it blossom. Let it become the atmosphere of your home.

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Purity for Life Episode #564: Called out of Terrible Darkness | Brian's Story of Hope

#564 - Called out of Terrible Darkness | Brian's Story of Hope

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Through a long series of events, God reached into terrible darkness and called Brian to become a devoted follower of Jesus.

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When Brian was growing up, he wholeheartedly pursued sex, drugs, a musical career, and whatever else he thought would bring him fulfillment. But then, God began to draw Brian—through a drumming gig at a church, through a girlfriend who was fed up with his porn addiction, and then through his time in the Residential Program at Pure Life Ministries. Little bit by little bit, God was calling Brian to become a dedicated follower of Jesus.

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Man examining his heart to see if he is really saved.

Should I Question My Salvation?

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In this short blog, Steve Gallagher gives a straightforward answer to this complicated question.

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When should someone be asking themselves, "Am I really saved?" Steve Gallagher answers that very question in this interview from our archives.

Host: We want to deal with a question today that came in from a fellow who professes to be a Christian. He says that he struggles with an obsessive-compulsive disorder and that he doubts his salvation. He wants to know, is there ever a time when Jesus will simply stop forgiving a person? He wants the answer to questions like, “Am I going to hell? Am I saved? Is there any hope for me?”

Steve: Well, this is one of those situations where I think we really are dealing with the salvation issue and that's what needs to be addressed. As long as a guy is dealing with ongoing sin in his life, then he isn't going to be able to sincerely enjoy the affirmation of salvation that comes to a person who knows that their life is right with God. This has been one of those areas where the church has just given way, given way, given way for so long allowing one corruption after another into the church to the point that now people who are in ongoing homosexuality (or any other form of sexual sin for that matter) can ask the question, “Am I saved?” And many will rush in and say, “Don't doubt your salvation.” And I'm saying that there is every reason in the world for this guy to doubt his salvation.

Host: Are there some particular scriptures that you can provide for this fellow that will help someone who's in sin that's looking for affirmation.

Steve: Well, I can give some scriptures that paint a fairly black and white picture. 1 Corinthians 6 says not to be deceived. Fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, effeminate and homosexuals and a list of others will not inherit the Kingdom of God. That's very straightforward. 1 John 2:3 says, “By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments.” (1 John 2:3, NASB 1995) And then a couple verses later John said, “By this we know that we are in Him: the one who says he abides in Him ought himself to walk in the same manner as He walked.” (1 John 2: 5b-6, NASB 1995) And then in the next chapter, John says, “No one who is born of God practices sin.” (1 John 3:9a) It's fairly clear cut. I'm not trying to be a hard nose. I'm just trying to help people to see what the Bible really does say about a person who is in habitual sin.

Host: Now, Steve, we should probably say here that we're not talking about sinless perfection here though.

Steve: No, we're talking about ongoing outward sin. We're not talking about the struggles any sincere believer has. There are no sinless people alive. We all have our struggles, but we are talking about someone here who is continually flouting the commandments of God.

Host: Well, the man who asked this question had a concluding question to go along with his question. And that question was, “Is there any hope for me?” So, is there any hope for Him?

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Steve: Absolutely. There's hope, but it means that you have to repent. It means that you have to put your faith in Christ in a real way. It means that you have to lay aside your sin and your life and make a surrender to Jesus Christ. Jesus said that the gate is narrow for a reason. And that gate being narrow means that we are discarding our old life and going into a new life. But the wonderful thing is that instead of going through the drudgery of trying to live in two worlds and dragging yourself through the Christian life trying to do something you're not empowered to do by the Holy Spirit, you can surrender yourself to Christ in a real way and then have the abundant power that's available for you to live that kind of a life?

Host: Yes. And we might add also here that the gentlemen that asked this question is talking about his struggle with homosexuality specifically. But we are really talking about giving up our life in this world more than just dealing with one particular type of struggle.

Steve: Yes. Homosexuality is no worse than sexual sin of any other kind – or any other of the sins that Paul lists in Galatians 5 or 1 Corinthians 6. Sin is sin.

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Why Devastation is the First Step Toward Redemption | Ashes to Beauty

Why Devastation is the First Step Toward Redemption | Ashes to Beauty

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In God's powerful hands, situations that devastate us actually become the first step on our road to redemption.

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Root Issues

Sexual sin is like a hurricane of evil, and the overwhelming devastation can make it seem like there's no hope for the marriage. But in God's powerful hands, the sense of our total neediness actually becomes the first step on the road to redemption. That's what we'll talk about in episode two of our series, Ashes to Beauty.

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Purity for Life Episode #563: What are Common Myths About Sexual Addiction? | Ask the Counselor

#563 - What are Common Myths About Sexual Addiction? | Ask the Counselor

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In this episode, we'll talk about some really common myths that Christians believe about sexual addiction.

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Finding Freedom
Root Issues

When professing Christians get sick of being addicted, they often turn to the internet, self-help gurus or psychology to find out where their real problem is. Unfortunately, a lot of what they'll find from these sources is nothing more than myth. In today's show, we'll look at some really common myths that many Christians believe about sexual addiction.

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God is Willing and Able to Transform ANY Marriage | Ashes to Beauty

God is Willing and Able to Transform ANY Marriage | Ashes to Beauty

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God has POWER to restore even the most broken marriages.

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Finding Freedom

For over 35 years, we have watched God do miracles in even the most hopeless of situations. If your marriage has been reduced to a pile of ashes, we hope you'll join us over the next 8 episodes. We'll talk to four couples whose marriages were horribly damaged by sexual sin, but who walked God's pathway to restoration and found that He is truly able to transform marriages from ashes to beauty.

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2024 Pure Life Ministries Conference

Join us for the 2024 Pure Life Ministries Conference

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Only a love of the truth will protect us from the great lies which surround us every day.

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Spiritual Growth

Every believer is susceptible to the enemy’s lies which surround us every day. The power to overcome them begins with a cry for God to unravel deception entrenched within us. Only then can He begin to work truth into us so that we can stay free from the duplicities of our time.

Join us May 3rd and 4th for the Pure Life Ministries' 24th Annual Conference. Our hope is that through this powerful 2-day event your faith in the Truth of God will be strengthened so that you can stand strong in these last days. For more information, or to register, visit conference.purelifeministries.org.

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Mercy Destroys the Spirit of Lust

Mercy Destroys the Spirit of Lust

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Real freedom isn't just about protecting our hearts from lust, it's about yielding to a completely different kind of spirit.

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Real freedom isn't just about protecting our hearts from a lustful spirit, it's about yielding to a completely different kind of spirit—a loving, giving, spirit of mercy. In today’s interview, we’ll talk about why learning to get in the flow of God’s mercy is absolutely critical for going all the way into a life of victory, and we’ll also give you some practical things that will help you foster that spirit of mercy.

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