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#605 - Giving Thanks in the Hard SeasonsPrevious ArrowNext Arrow
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#605 - Giving Thanks in the Hard Seasons

Pure Life Ministries Podcast

This episode: In our special Thanksgiving edition, we'll talk with three staff members who fought for gratitude in the midst of trials.

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Place Your Hope in God's Faithfulness | Unveiling Yahweh Series by Patrick Hudson on 11/20/2024Previous ArrowNext Arrow
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Salvation

Place Your Hope in God's Faithfulness | Unveiling Yahweh Series

Patrick Hudson

In the 5th message of our Unveiling Yahweh series, we examine the Faithfulness of God and the response it should evoke in us.

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#603 - Pursue God's Kingdom, Not the American Dream | On the Same TeamPrevious ArrowNext Arrow
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#603 - Pursue God's Kingdom, Not the American Dream | On the Same Team

Pure Life Ministries Podcast

This episode: After Stephen and Jubilee ruined their lives in the pursuit of wealth, God gave them a new vision centered on His Kingdom.

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Salvation

Timeless Truths: We All Need Genuine Repentance

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Timeless Truths: Genuine repentance and intimacy with Christ will prepare us for the searching light of Judgment Day.

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Purity for Life Episode #344: What's Pride Got to Do With It?

#344 - What's Pride Got to Do With It?

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Sexual sin is just the fruit of a life that is full of pride. But there are key ways to overcome pride that really bring freedom.

Purity for Life Episode #343: Pastors: Love Sinners While Standing Against Homosexuality

#343 - Pastors: Love Sinners While Standing Against Homosexuality

Podcasts

It is possible for pastors to show loving concern and offer wise counsel, even to married men, without compromising biblical truth.

Sexual Sin is a Liar

Truth #2 - Sexual Sin is a Liar

Short Videos

Sexual sin not only fails to bring lasting pleasure and happiness, it also encourages us to believe lies about others, ourselves, and God.

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Renounce Self-Pity for the Goodness of God

Articles

Fight to silence self-pity and its soothing lies, and discover a new foundation for life: living in light of God's unfailing love.

Purity for Life Episode #342: God's Discipline is Proof of His Great Love

#342 - God's Discipline is Proof of His Great Love

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Men in sexual sin desperately need the discipline of the Lord. He has to reprove us, to correct us, and even, at times, sorely chastise us.

Now is the Time to Seek the Lord by Nate Danser on 07/08/21

Now is the Time to Seek the Lord

Sermons

Seeking God must become a priority in our lives because Scripture teaches that we will find Him if we search for Him with our whole hearts.

There is a Way Out

Truth #1 - There is a Way Out

Short Videos

For the struggling Christian, deliverance from porn often seems impossible. But no one is too far from the outstretched arm of the Lord!

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The Misnomer of Conversion Therapy

Articles

The heated debate over homosexuality in recent years has produced misleading claims... but God's Word provides clear help.

Why Leaders Fall: A Story and a Conversation

#340 - Why Leaders Fall: A Story and a Conversation

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A Christian leader is vulnerable to many temptations which, if given in to, will have devastating effects on many other lives.

Purity for Life Episode #339: Common Roadblocks to Victory Over Sexual Sin

#339 - Common Roadblocks to Victory Over Sexual Sin

Podcasts

There's no quick fix for sexual sin, but there are key steps anyone can take to fight against common problem areas.

Purity for Life Episode #341: When Leaders Fall: The Process of Biblical Restoration

#341 - When Leaders Fall: The Process of Biblical Restoration

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Shame can keep us hiding sin, but for those courageous enough to fight, there is a biblical foundation for restoration, even for leaders.

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Can God Love Me If I'm Like This? (A Wife's Letter)

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Kathy Gallagher helps wives overcome self-condemnation as they struggle to walk with God and have a right response to their circumstances.

Purity for Life Episode #338: Can My Boyfriend and I Really Stay Pure in Today's World?

#338 - Can My Boyfriend and I Really Stay Pure in Today's World?

Podcasts

Jessie shares her vision for women who will fight for purity and we give encouragement for hurting wives who feel unworthy of God's love.

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The Poison of Pornography

Articles

One man's story exposes the Enemy's age-old strategy: hook the victim with small indulgences... and then drag him ever deeper toward hell.

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The FBI's Secret Battle with the Mafia Over Pornography

Articles

The staggering success and accessibility of today's porn industry disguises the fact that it is an evil empire with a dark past.

Purity for Life Episode #337: Confronting the Lies People Believe About Porn

#337 - Confronting the Lies People Believe About Porn

Podcasts

We explore the secret history of the adult entertainment industry and debunk the myth that porn only affects the person using it.

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How Can I Reverse this Sinful Habit I'm Trapped In?

Articles

It's one thing to recognize you're on the wrong path, but to find your way back, you must learn the first steps to take toward real change.

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Communication 101 for a Godly and Healthy Marriage

Articles

Jeff and Rose Colón draw on their years of experience helping couples and zero in on a key strategy for promoting marital harmony.

Purity for Life Episode #335: Five Reasons Why People Struggle with Same-Sex Attraction

#335 - Five Reasons Why People Struggle with Same-Sex Attraction

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Steve Gallagher draws on his knowledge of the issues involved and explores five reasons why people could feel drawn toward homosexuality.

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Walking with Christ through Dangers, Toils, and Snares

Articles

We might wish there was a detour, but if we seek to walk the path Jesus walked, there's no way to avoid trials and suffering.

Purity for Life Episode #334: A Group Discussion About Singleness: Why It's (Really!) a Good Thing

#334 - A Group Discussion About Singleness: Why It's (Really!) a Good Thing

Podcasts

There can be a lot of questions and worries for those who are single. But there is real joy and blessing that comes from this lifestyle.

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From a Broken Marriage to Renewed Love: Karla's Story

Articles

When Karla finally found the one she'd been waiting for, she never imagined the pain to follow... or how God would powerfully intervene.

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Where There is Addiction, There is Fear

Articles

Fear paralyzes and makes fighting sexual sin feel impossible. But the barrier of fear can be faced head-on... and overcome.

Purity for Life Episode #333: Where's the Line Between Temptation and Sin?

#333 - Where's the Line Between Temptation and Sin?

Podcasts

Feeling tempted isn't wrong, but it's critical to know where the line is so we can avoid getting anywhere close to disobeying God's Word.

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Why I Sincerely Love My Wife

Articles

Kathy Irwin was clueless about my pornography addiction and my long history of womanizing when she decided to marry me.

Purity for Life Episode #332: How to Find Healing After Your Husband's Sexual Sin

#332 - How to Find Healing After Your Husband's Sexual Sin

Podcasts

While the trial of a broken marriage is painful, there is hope and there are answers that will help a wife navigate through the devastation.

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Exploring the Pain a Betrayed Wife Experiences

Articles

The devastation of betrayal goes far beyond words, but Kathy Gallagher draws on her experiences to describe the damage of a husband's sin.

Purity for Life Episode #331: The Devastation of Betrayal: How Sexual Sin Impacts Wives

#331 - The Devastation of Betrayal: How Sexual Sin Impacts Wives

Podcasts

The effects of a husband's sin can lead to unforgiveness, bitterness and other unhealthy reactions which a wife must learn to work through.

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Why Sex Addicts Often Struggle with Self-Righteousness

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Dig beneath the sexual sin in an addict's life, and you'll find manifestations of self-righteousness. Rooting it out is vital for freedom.

Purity for Life Episode #330: What Sexual Addicts and Pharisees Have in Common

#330 - What Sexual Addicts and Pharisees Have in Common

Podcasts

Putting on a religious show and even believing oneself to be good are actually common issues among Christians living in habitual sexual sin.

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Did You Repent...Or Make an Empty Resolution?

Articles

Real repentance will completely change someone, but just making resolutions won't. So it's essential to know the difference between the two.

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How Can Leaders Help the Addicted Who Feel Hopeless?

Articles

A panel of counselors discuss strategies for counseling those in habitual sexual sin who feel hopeless.

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Can a Wife Respect an Unfaithful Husband?

Articles

Can a Wife Respect an Unfaithful Husband: Kathy Gallagher speaks from personal testimony about the battle to regain respect towards an unfai

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How the Presence of Jesus Turned a Slave into a Pastor

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Once a wild drug addict, Dave Leopold's experience with Jesus shattered the chains of sin and put him on a radically different course.

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One Couple's Unexpected Tragedy and Blessings

Articles

Scott and Erin Wilson share how they moved from the pain of two devastating trials into an experience of God's amazing love and power.

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How Overwhelmed Pastors Can Join the Fight

Articles

Pastor and evangelist Glenn Meldrum gives some ideas for how an overwhelmed pastor can effectively address sexual sin in his congregation.

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Purity's Hidden Enemy is the "Self-Life"

Articles

Purity has many enemies. One of the deadliest–the self-life–is entrenched deep within us. We must learn to wage warfare against it.

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How to Really Get Right With God

Articles

Counselor Jim Lewis addresses the spiritual doubts of people in sexual sin by giving the essential biblical steps to getting right with God.

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Why Bible Study Can Change You

Articles

When we approach the Bible—not to find out what the Bible can do for me, but to know God—we will begin to see that God brings freedom.

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Your Convictions About Masturbation Matter

Articles

Christian men: if you want a pure heart, stop equivocating about the sinfulness of lust and masturbation. They are both wrong in God’s eyes.

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Wisdom and Comfort for Hurting Wives

Articles

Kathy Gallagher discusses common issues that hurting wives face when they are seeking help for their husbands' sexual sin.

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What if My Sexual Past is Plaguing Me?

Articles

Ask Pastor Steve: "I am being plagued with sexual thoughts from the past and my mind has been wandering. What I can do to be free of this?"

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I Once Was Blind, but Now I See

Articles

I was blinded to my true condition, believing that everything was fine. But eventually suicide began to look better than living.

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I Found a New Life After Addiction

Articles

It's easy to feel like there's no way out of sexual addiction. But there really is something so much better on the other side.

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Separated from Your Spouse? Avoid Dating Others.

Articles

Separation from a spouse can be extremely painful, and casual dating can be a powerful temptation during this very vulnerable time.

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How to Know When You're Addicted

Articles

In a sexualized culture, it can be difficult to define what sexual addiction is. We'll give some helpful thoughts on this subject.

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The Power of Confession in Marriage

Articles

When a repentant husband confesses his sin to his wife, there are tremendous benefits. But this needs to be done with wisdom and discretion.

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Homosexuality: 3 Tough Questions

Articles

Jordan made the difficult journey out of homosexuality. Today he offers hope to others by answering difficult questions about this issue.

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Exposure: A Painful, but Necessary Step toward Freedom

Articles

When I look back at God's dealings with me, it's as if He was saying, “Trying to overcome your sin without confessing it isn't an option."

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The Power of Being a Giver

Articles

Becoming a giver. It is an unexpected tactic for fighting sexual addiction that is often the missing link in the search for freedom.

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The Betrayal of Trust in a Marriage

Articles

Jeff and Rose Colón share about the challenges of rebuilding trust after sexual sin has impacted a marriage.

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Homosexuality: The Church at a Crossroads

Articles

Homosexuality has become widely accepted in our culture. Jeff Colón reflects on how the church is relating to this cultural shift.

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My Son Says He's Homosexual

Articles

In this Ask Pastor Steve, we answer a grieving parent's tough question about a son who says he is homosexual.

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Abused by Men. Loved by God.

Articles

A revelation of God's love in the light of her sin changed the way she found her joy and fulfillment, and taught her how to endure trials.

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Counseling Young People After Sexual Abuse

Articles

Multitudes of young people are dealing with the devastating consequences of sexual abuse. They need real answers and great hope.

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How to Know if Your Husband has Really Changed

Articles

How will I know if my husband has really changed? is a common question from wives. We’ll talk to Kathy Gallagher for the answer.

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Are Christians in Sexual Sin Really Saved?

Articles

After 30 years of sincerely studying the Bible and considering this question with an open mind, I think I've finally reached a conclusion.

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Are You an Addict Desperate for Change?

Articles

The greatest victory and joy you will ever know will be yours as you recklessly abandon yourself to Christ.

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I was Sexually Molested at 5 Years Old.

Articles

Trying to be a good person won't change our hearts or our past. True change and freedom come through an authentic relationship with Jesus.

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“The Spirit is Willing, But the Flesh is Weak”

Articles

Our fallen nature has a side to it that has no character, no resolve, no backbone, and no self-control. We must learn to overcome it.

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The Danger of Living in a Lifestyle of Lust

Articles

Even though a man may not be committing physical fornication, a man living a lifestyle of lust is just as guilty as the open fornicator.

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Must We Struggle with Sin?

Articles

We can answer this question by meditating on Jesus' own life and temptations, because He came to reveal the way we were meant to be.

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Why Pornography is the Greatest Threat to Today's Church

Articles

In spite of the soothsayers who minimize the damage being done, pornography is a spiritual disease racing through the Christian community.

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Can I Remarry If I Still Struggle with Lust?

Articles

I have struggled with masturbation and porn for a long time. I want to get remarried, but this would be my third marriage. Can I remarry?

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Why Sex Addicts are so Afraid

Articles

We often find ourselves stuck in unbelief, feeling powerless to break from a pattern of sin. But we're not stuck; we’re paralyzed by fear.

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Dealing with Residual Memories from Pornography

Articles

In this Ask Pastor Steve, a man wants to know how to overcome the memories of sinful exposure or actions from our past.

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Responding to the Normalization of Child Abuse

Articles

How will the unthinkable–the sexual exploitation of children–become thinkable? Through slow, persistent, and quiet change.

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The Problem with God’s Perfect Patience

Articles

I clearly see the Lord’s hand on my life despite my past willful rebellion. He patiently wooed me to Himself until He finally won my heart.

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When a Wife Follows Her Feelings over God’s Word

Articles

Unfortunately, Linda had more respect for man’s wisdom than the words of Jesus. She preferred to be ruled by her feelings than by God.

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Can a Sex Addict Plead Insanity on Judgment Day?

Articles

Without God’s intervention in our lives, we are all on a course of ever-increasing madness. But all will be responsible for how we've lived.

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Creating an Atmosphere of Mercy in Your Home

Articles

When we are being controlled by "self," the atmosphere in our homes will be less than desirable. We need rather to walk in mercy.

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Am I Going to Hell Because of My Sex Change?

Articles

I had a sex change many years ago. Now I love Jesus and am willing to stay single the rest of my life to stay pure. Will I still go to hell?

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How I Support My Husband in His Restoration

Articles

As my husband battled his way out of sexual sin and into victory, I discovered that my role in his life really is of vital importance.

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When a Sex Offender Shows Up At Your Church

Articles

There's a man in your office. He admits to having served time as a convicted child molester and wants to attend your church. What do you do?

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The Refuge of a Residential Program

Articles

I had soaked in the cesspool of pornography for years. Finding freedom would require separation from temptation and time in God's presence.

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6 Lies Pornography Convinces Girls to Believe

Articles

Girls who subject themselves to pornography are allowing their perspectives and their hearts to be shaped and influenced by deceptions.

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How to Counsel Teenagers about Masturbation

Articles

A teenager needs to know that although masturbation is wrong, it is not unforgivable. With their feet firmly on the truth, we can give hope.

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Why Instant Freedom is Rare for the Sex Addict

Articles

Sexual addicts are almost always transformed through a gradual process, rather than being instantaneously zapped. There's a reason for this.

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Homosexual Desires Do Not Define You

Articles

People struggling with same-sex attraction often feel like they are defined by their struggles. But that's not how God sees it.

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How to Minister Hope to Those With Same-Sex Attraction

Articles

In Mark's gospel we have a story that reveals five basic principles that can help us minister to someone battling same-sex attraction.

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What Do Christian Women Face in Our Post-Porn Culture?

Articles

In our post-porn culture, Christian women are informed by culture’s immorality and influenced by their own impulses.

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4 Ways a Pastor is Still Vulnerable to Sexual Sin

Articles

The way we live our daily lives sets the stage for either victory or defeat with the temptations that are sure to come.

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God's Faithfulness to Me and My Family

Articles

I was raised in church and had a salvation experience when I was seventeen. Everything seemed to be in its place—but I had a dark secret.

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The 4 Stages of Sin

Articles

Those bound in sexual sin must realize and admit that they are being driven by lust into a deadly sequence of events.

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How to Face the Fear of Forgiveness

Articles

A wife that has been devastated by her husband's sin is often afraid of forgiveness. This brings her to a major crossroads.

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Why This Program Embraces the Sinner

Articles

Those in sexual sin need to experience the balanced character of God: A lavish love for sinners and a passionate hatred for sin.

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To My Beautiful Sisters in Christ

Articles

My desire is to honor you; yet there are times that you dress as if you wish I wouldn’t. I implore you; please consider these things.

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Rescue the Christian Who is Losing His Way

Articles

Believers entrapped in sexual sin are in terrible danger. Unless they get back on track, Scripture is clear that they will be destroyed.

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On the Deadly Exposure and Effects of Sexual Sin

Articles

Sexual sin is like a great fire that begins with a spark. If left unchecked, it will devour everything in its path.

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If Anyone Wants to be First, He Shall Be First

Articles

The disturbing reality is that talent has a lot more to do with advancement in the American Church than does godly character.

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Only a Fool Mocks at Sin

Articles

It can be easy to justify our comparatively “little” sins. Nonetheless, believers are expected to treat sin with the utmost abhorrence.

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Struggling Christians: On the Road to the Promised Land

Articles

Friend, are you on the Road to the Promised Land? Are the fruits of repentance visible in your life?

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Help! I was Molested and am Drawn to Other Men

Articles

I was molested when I was younger and feel drawn towards strong men. What can I do?

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To Trust...Or Not to Trust?

Articles

Despite what many may say, it is possible to have trust rebuilt back into a marriage, even one that was utterly destroyed by sexual sin.

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Out of Homosexuality, and Into Something Worse

Articles

God requires us to not only clean up a few outward behaviors, but all the corrupting motives and attitudes that still lurk within.

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How to Help Children Who Have Been Abused

Articles

Unquestionably, sin destroys lives. Perhaps there is no sin that leaves such devastation in its wake as that of child abuse.

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How to Encourage Honesty from a Sex Addict

Articles

Lies are the close companion of all sexual sin. If there is sexual sin there will be lies. It is a basic spiritual principle. No exceptions.

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Sexual Sin and Modern-Day Leprosy

Articles

Did you know that Jesus gave His disciples authority to heal every disease except one? That disease was leprosy.

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God Loves To See A Good Fight

Articles

Whether we like it or not, being in the kingdom of God means that many battles lie ahead of us. It's imperative that we learn how to fight.

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The Best Part of Christianity

Articles

Surrender begins the process of restoring us into God's image. We often call this sanctification, but I also like to call it preparation.